Car Whore
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I've been talking to this girl at work, and a few people know that I am interested in her.Our schedules don't usually match,but we've chatted a few times here and there.I haven't wanted to come on too strong too soon,but she does seem interested and I've been working on asking if she wanted to hang out or something.This has only been 2-3 weeks.
So,today,a co-worker who is also supposedly my "team leader" comes up to me and says "You don't have any interest in so-and-so do you?"....when he knows damn well I do,and he's seen me talking to her.I just go "Why's that?" and he pulls out his notepad and goes "Because she gave me her number.".......I just went "Oh,that's cool! Good for you,man!".He says "She said 'This isn't a date,right? Just hanging out.'" and he says "Yeah,you seem cool and I just want to get to know you".This is what he's telling me went down.He tells me the same thing...she just seems like a cool person and I want to get to know her.
Ok,first.....why did he come to me and ask if I had interest in her AFTER he already asked her out? If I had said yes (which he already knew I did),it wouldn't have changed anything,right? It seems like he's just trying to shove it in my face and brag that he asked her first or something.The guy is already know as a sneak and I didn't like him in the first place,and I'm not the only one.I seriously doubt this girl is going to be interested in him,anyways,but the way he did it really made me a little mad.Am I wrong? It's not like I can't ask her out anyways,but still.
So,today,a co-worker who is also supposedly my "team leader" comes up to me and says "You don't have any interest in so-and-so do you?"....when he knows damn well I do,and he's seen me talking to her.I just go "Why's that?" and he pulls out his notepad and goes "Because she gave me her number.".......I just went "Oh,that's cool! Good for you,man!".He says "She said 'This isn't a date,right? Just hanging out.'" and he says "Yeah,you seem cool and I just want to get to know you".This is what he's telling me went down.He tells me the same thing...she just seems like a cool person and I want to get to know her.
Ok,first.....why did he come to me and ask if I had interest in her AFTER he already asked her out? If I had said yes (which he already knew I did),it wouldn't have changed anything,right? It seems like he's just trying to shove it in my face and brag that he asked her first or something.The guy is already know as a sneak and I didn't like him in the first place,and I'm not the only one.I seriously doubt this girl is going to be interested in him,anyways,but the way he did it really made me a little mad.Am I wrong? It's not like I can't ask her out anyways,but still.