for the record, i was trying to adopt/rescue a dog, but i also wanted the right dog for me. i got really turned off by some of the rescue groups i tried to work with. key word tried. i found a couple puppies i was interested in, and everytime i tried to ask questions about it, they ignored the questions and just sent me the adoption application for me to fill out. i realize that its very important to make sure you cover your bases with a rescue dog, because you don't want the dog to be in and out of foster and shelter care. i wanted to make sure i covered all my bases too. i finally found the perfect rescue dog for me, she was an aussie/border collie mix pup, 6.5 weeks old. i sent a lonnngggggg drawn out email to the rescue group asking questions and making sure she was still available. the guy answered me back almost immediately saying yes, she was available, and i should fill out an application. i took this to mean i might have a good shot at getting her, so excitedly i filled out the app and sent it back by the end of the day. three days went by and i didnt even get word that he rec'd my app. so i sent an email just trying to check the status, and even offering to go down and meet with the rescue group owners and have a face to face interview, so they knew i was right for the dog. still no answer. so two weeks goes by and i find out about Kenny by pure chance and i pounce on him. i felt bad because i had that application out there, but i couldn't even contact him so what was the harm? a few days later i get an email from him. "Emmie is already adopted, but we do still have [referenced random pups from group] available" ... And that was it. so i spent all that time filling out the application with every reason i could think of why i would be perfect for that dog and then waiting and waiting and waiting...and he tells me she's gone, but he has random other puppies available.
/end rant
tldr; had hard time with rescue group.
however i do still think it's very important and great that people put their time into these rescue groups, i must have just run into some tough ones to deal with. i even withheld the name of that particular group because i don't want to turn people off to trying it out. thousands of pets get adopted by these groups so clearly they work for a lot of people