Ferrari gone...

How Big? hahahaha.. Hope all is well. They say Absence Makes The Heart Grow Fonder.
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He's 5'7 and has a pot belly. He owes me $2300 in a car we had together and also hasn't paid me a dime in child support for the past year...

 
I don't know where exactly, but report him to the "state"/"authorities". The State of Maine will garnish his wages. IF he's working (over the table). I've had to garnish wages for 2 employees. One quit as soon as they caught up with him. S.O.B.

 
He works at ACS in Lewiston and DHS is already working on it. I recieved letters from them stating they notified him and his employer. I'm just waiting for the first check. He screams poverty, but just had twins. It's effing ridiclous. He's trying to smooth talk me so I won't put him in jail, but it's not my fault he HAD the money and never gave it to me like he was supposed to. It'll all catch up to him eventually...plus he told me he's quitting his job when his wife goes back to work so he can stay home with the twins. And he's supposedly joining the Navy Reserves...I'm just sick of it all. He needs to grow up and take responsibility for his child that I raise myself. Grrrrrrr.... Lol

 
So, any letters, emails, calls from Jamie? They should have let him make a call by now. He's probably hatin it right now, but it will get better.

 
Thanks Nate. I think so as well. I think this whole thing is going to change him so much even though he thinks it won't. I told him this whole distance thing will either make or break our relationship. I think it'll make us stronger as a couple. I just can't wait to see him...
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Being apart is really hard. I've been doing it, and it is really no fun. But if you can keep it together you'll have a stronger relationship than before. If you can keep it together it means you love each other enough to make it through the hardship.

 
Yea! I got a call on the 6th. He said he's missing me and wants to be home. I think it'll make us stronger. I've written him a few letters letting him know I'll always be there and at the end of the 8 1/2 weeks I'll still be waiting for him. I'll always wait for him. He is doing good though. He said the food sucks and misses my cooking. Haha. He got a chance to write one letter and send it to me. He also said he's hoping they start working better as a flight so he can call me more.

I have done the being away part before with my ex husband. He was in the Navy so I know how the military can be. It does suck, but it makes it worth it in the end to have someone there when you come back. When I hear from him again I'll let him know you all give him your best.
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Got a letter from him today. He said he's sick of bein treated less than human and he's tired of the yelling. He misses me and my daughter a lot. He also said there hasn't been a day that has gone by that he's been glad he went. He said that he's heard that the worst is yet to come. I sent him a letter back saying he'll be fine and that it's almost half over. I just miss being held by him. It sucks...being lonely is the worst...
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did he happen to mention what hes had to do as a duty in basic yet. i made sure to steer him in the right direction and just wait till u see him at graduation he will look and act like a true airman. It will be worth the wait, like you said he is almost halfway thru keep strong girl keep strong.

 
He said something about mopping and sweeping something and he did a good job so he got an extra call, but other than that he's only talked about fire/bomb training and going to church on Sunday cause the MTI's aren't there. I can't wait to see him. The weekends without my daughter are the worst. I'm all alone at home sulking in our bedroom looking at all his stuff. I'm trying VERY hard to be strong. I love him so much.

 
i love that he took my advice on church i told him it the only chance to really alone and collect his thoughts. ahh so he got stuck with the fun mopping and sweeping duty that's never ending and I warned him about fire duty aka walking around checking on your asleep bunkmates. Your almost there and if your anything like he told me you are that rock for him

 
I love that he's even going to church. I tried asking him to go with me here and he always said no. Thanks. What did he say about me? He's not much of a feeling person so anything I can get makes my day. If I didn't have my daughter to keep it together I'd be a total mess and would probably be drinking all the time.

 
Also I guess they went out on the bomb/fire drill and came back to their dorm being trashed and had to re-make all their beds

 
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