Yes, I'm a girl, and no, I live with my parents and their giving me 8 for a new car. I have so many questions to answer. Only the brake lights stayed on and now my car is dead. I thought maybe ice or dirt built up somewhere but I drove my car around for awhile to heat it up and they still stayed on, even while I was driving. The flat black is awesome, my ex painted silver on the top of my car (without my permission) and that's chipping off really fast though. I tend to hit a lot of things because I'm not too great at drifting yet...haha so the black is a win.