It's LOVING people being way too dogmatic. You don't believe what I believe therefore you are wrong and your opionion is worthless. You don't like the stuff I like therefore you deserve to die.
I accept other peoples opinion, and while I may disagree, I won't raisin on them for it. I appreciate good work, something that someone did their best at and came out the way they like it.
I can give a few good examples from the motorcycle world. Almost ALL clubs, 1%(Hells Angles, Outlaws) or others, won't allow me to be a member because my bobber is based on a Jap four-banger and not an americal V-twin. This doesn't bother me because I like living on the legal side of the law, but it is still irksome. Example no. 2: If you go to a bike show, or a bike night, what you will see is 98% stock V-twins. Most of these bikes are considered custom because they have a bolt or exhaust or foot pegs. I subscribe to the statement that you can't call your pile of aftermarket chrome a chopper/bobber unless you have irreparably damaged at lease one bike in it's making. That being said, I can still appreciate a nicely put together bike, even if it is a crotch rocket or a rat bike.
At a car show, a Civic with bags is still a civic, but the work that went into modifying it can be appreciated. An eclipse with 18's and nothing else doesn't deserve a second look. But don't walk up to the guy and tell him he's an ass-hat. Everybody walking by already knows that, leave the poor retard in peace. He's happy in his ignorance. This is one reason that I haven't posted any pics of my car yet. I don't have any major modifications that most of us haven't already seen. My car is not a trailer queen, its my daily beater. I would be calling myself a moron if I took it to a car show. Maybe when I do the stuff I have rattling around in my head, but even then only other Subaru people would recognize the stuff and be impressed.
When all the fan-boi's, 4x4 guys, muscle men, and the normal people (like us, except maybe nate) learn to keep our opinions to ourselves, the world will be a much better place. Now lets kiss an make up.