I'm not sure the point is getting across honestly. We aren't saying this to hear ourselves, we are trying to help you. And I'm sorry but your family mechanic friend, or whatever he is, should be telling you the same thing we are. There is a HUGE chance that turbo had oil with very small metal shavings circulated through it, which is very bad. Yes, there is a chance it is fine, but a much larger chance that it is not. We are trying to help you out, and save you money and a headache in the long run. The rod bearing spun, which in turn caused small shavings of metal to mix with the oil, and then circulate through out the entire motor, and turbo. It has nothing to do with the motor seizing or not. It's doesn't even have anything to do with it being a VF40. It would be the same precaution with any turbo. If you want to chance it, that's on you, but I know I'm not the only one that says you shouldn't. Just be cautious! Not trying to be a jerk, just trying to make sure you know how big of a chance it is. If that turbo was contaminated, it could eat the new motor too!