Polarizing is what is killing this country.
I would say the _lack_ of polarizing is killing the country.
People preach tolerance and acceptance, but what actually ends up happening is the minority becomes the majority, causing the majority (tax paying, blue collar, family-oriented citizens) to become frustrated with the system that takes from their hard-earned dollar and gives freebies to those who are not willing to pay into the very system they withdraw from.
Social Security is crashing because of mis-appropriation. Gov't is actually getting the money they need. They are just spending it on unnecessary programs that concentrate on promoting minority interests. Gov't red tape is over-flowing into the programs that are put into place to attempt to compensate for the lack of time parents are able to spend with their children.
Check out this model:
Parent's aren't able to make ends meet because of cost of healthcare & taxes
As a result, mom and dad both work full time
Because they both work full time, they get bumped up a tax bracket and end up putting MORE money into the system
Their children are sent to after-school programs to keep them busy until Mom & Dad get home
These after school programs are funded because Mom & Dad work full time
The taxes, generated by the new income bracket, are easily enough to balance out the cost of day care & after school costs
Basically, Mom & Dad are working their tails off so they can pay for the programs their children are a part of so they don't have to watch them so they can work their tails off more to pay for the taxes they are drowning in and the healthcare they can barely afford, so they can stay in the house they can barely afford because of the taxes levied that "pay" for the schools, gov't, red tape, programs, low-income health care etc.
The system is getting worse not just because of those running it. It's getting worse because it is a system set to fail. When you create a system that penalizes the people who earn a better income by taxing them more heavily, you are hurting the work ethic. Why should I bust my tail so I can pay into a system that doesn't provide me with services because I'm not falling into the "poverty line" on paper??
Just some thoughts... dis-organized at times.