(to be read in a warm and friendly tone)
As stated before, group meets are ONLY 1 night a month, this is a car club, not a Quilting Club- where you pack up your blankets and sewing kits just to drive for and hour or two, sew, then head back home.
The monthly meets are pretty important as it helps you build a rapport with other members, you can swap, sell and buy items, you can show off your new modifications or dings/ battle wounds, and you get to exchange stories- big or small.
More importantly you are also supporting Mainely Subarus when you enter into the drawings, purchase decals and clothing items.
No one said this isn't child friendly, the more the merrier as long as you exhibit appropriate drinking/ driving behavior. We've even had men with newborn babies at the meet and it has never interfered with mingling- in fact the kids help us build a better sense of you, and sometimes make you a little more approachable, LOL.
Group meets, when announced in a timely manner, are planned a couple weeks in advance, and we've always known of them to be on the 2nd Wednesday of each month, that day hasn't changed (not including the baseball day if that was a different day). That being said, if work interferes with the meet schedule, request to get out of work a couple hours early, just make sure that your work obligations are fulfilled, that's what I've always done. When bosses know even a couple days ahead of time that you'd like to take only one afternoon off, they are usually pretty decent with it providing you get your work done or can find coverage.
Maine is a rather large state, and we try to cover the east coast, in fact, I don't feel we travel far enough to make this happen, but I don't complain. Again, it's a car club, and it's ONE night a month, you bought your car to drive it, right?
So you have to be to work early the next morning, travel the 5 minutes to 4 hours [both ways] to pop in, grab a bite, say 'hi', and head on out. I'm sure it's nothing a cup of coffee couldn't cure in the morning (from what I've heard).
Portland Pie: some alcohol consumers may have thought it was a great deal, because they DID get their money's worth, however, if you got a soda and a slice or two of pizza because they couldn't keep them coming, it was not worth it. It was an excellent idea, and would have been better if more attention was shown towards the other tables.
I have always been one to love picnicking, cooking out, grilling, pot luck type of get-to-gethers. We've even had a member here offer to hold that and a camp night on his many acres of land... I think that would be a phenomenal idea, especially if he is willing to be so hospitable with his bathroom facilities.
If we plan meets and drives based on the weather, we might as well be stuck in our homes, as even the weather predictions are inaccurate. An outdoor meet would be great- I'd love to see it happen at least once to say we've tried it.
Drive In Movie Theater: most awful idea, SORRY, as much as I love drive-in movies, you'll miss your chance to socialize. It's kind of like an old friend suggesting you meet up at the movies after not seeing them in 12 years, do you really just want to sit next to someone and listen to them breathe? I put this in the category as meeting at a baseball game. And I'm not clowning on your idea, my own personal experience: I LOVE BASEBALL! I have a 10 year high school reunion in a couple weeks planned at the Oriole's Stadium! That is the worst idea ever- as even as someone on here said, you really can't socialize at a baseball game.
It is pretty sad that we have not had more group drives.
Group drives really do bring us closer together. So if you feel awkward or uneasy at a meet for a few minutes, try a group drive, as you really get to branch out and know the person. It will be a forever request for weekend meets [by members], one that usually only gets approved with group drives. I'm not sure why we don't have more group drives like in the past, maybe it's the fear of driving behavior, maybe it's the fear of being bombarded with 47 different people telling the Moderators that the day they chose for the drive isn't good for them- then the Mods feel as if they can't please anyone and want to cancel it all together.
I don't see why we can't all settle on the same thing. Rearrange your time to relax in your car club atmosphere for ONE day.
One more thing, I also feel that meeting outside of the world wide web is ideal, as some people know what to say, but can't really type it. Maybe one person is over educated on a certain subject, but his typing comes off as arrogant, how are we to know the true "you" if we don't meet you in person, and everyone goes, "Oh that's So-In-So chiming in, he's a real tool." Well, maybe he's NOT. Some people have poor grammar, spelling, punctuation, bad smiley selections, and typing skills, but they can hold a heck of a conversation!
Let's unify in the Subaru car club community!
Thank you for taking a moment to read this.