Thanks guys!
Well,
I have only gotten stuck in this car once. And that was going up a very steep and rocky incline. I lost power going up and finally had to stop and back down. Other then that, no, I haven't gotten stuck. I have taken that car into 2 feet of pure clay/mud and have not gotten stuck yet. I actually had to pull(well attempt to) a legacy that got stuck with snow tires out there. He was in the same mud depth that I was in, but he layed frame on the mud and could not get out.
In snow, I have no problem what so ever. We had that Dirty Meet out in the desert where there was 2-3ft of snow in places. I led the way to break trail for the other Subarus so they could get through it. When I did get "Stuck", I would just throw it in reverse and try again. Maybe I just haven't tried hard enough yet to get it stuck, but it does a damn good job.
Should I have gotten a jeep...
Well, I defiantly cannot get to some of the more rocky and technical places like a jeep with a lot of articulation, flex, and ground clearance can, but I have taken my car up a lot of Jeep trails, and have done very well. The car is narrow enough to fit up these trails fine. The pics above don't show the ditch very well, but the car has plenty of grip and flex to get through those situations, if you don't mind your bumper getting alittle messed up. So if you really want to get in those situations where you need to get up a steep, rocky, technical incline, then a Subaru isn't what you want.
But!
The Subaru has one big advantage over the jeep, when it comes to dirt trails, the jeep can't keep up at all. Where the jeep does more technical things, the Subaru can do more rally things. I can take corners wicked fast with minimal body roll, where as the jeep would be flipping over. I like this trade off, I can still get up most technical things, but still rally the **** out of my car. I think the expedition would work this way too, good on more technical things, but ****ty on the flat fast roads.
Again sand same thing, no problem.
And like you said, tires make a huge difference. Without those Grabbers, I wouldn't be able to do half things I do now. The lift was so I could fit bigger tires on my car, you might be able fit those tires on stock struts.
I had my car lowered ( not slammed, but lowered), and being able to rip up tarmac was way fun, and times, I wish I was still lowered, but using a Subaru to it's full potential has been awesome. I have way too much fun out in the desert, tearing up dry lake beds, and rallying down wide open roads. Not worrying about speed bumps, snow on the road, and small animals and children is also a plus. And lifted subarus look ****ing badass.
Wow, that's a lot of writing. Hope it helps!